Secret Santa wishlist ideas: what to put on yours
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Secret Santa wishlist ideas: what to put on yours

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By Holly Bennett
Gift & Secret Santa editor, List of Wishes
23 October 2026β€’Last updated 23 October 2026β€’9 min readβ€’1,747 words

Six steps to a Secret Santa wishlist your gift-giver can shop from: the right number of items, real A$ prices, what to leave off, and how to share one link.

You have drawn a name, and somebody has drawn yours. They lean over and ask what you would like. You say "oh, anything at all", and three weeks later you unwrap a novelty tie. This is how the world ends up with so many novelty ties.

A Secret Santa wishlist stops that. It hands your gift-giver a short list of things you would be glad to open, all inside the budget, with no guessing on either side. Here is how to put one together, step by step, with ideas for an A$20 or A$30 swap and a few rules that keep the whole thing friendly.

Been drawn this year? Start your wishlist now, add five or six things under the limit, and share the one link with whoever has your name. They see the list; you never see who claimed what, so the surprise stays in one piece.

Step 1: Find out the budget and the rules

Check the spending limit before you write a single item. Most office and family swaps in Australia sit between A$20 and A$30, with some going to A$50. Every item on your list needs to fit under that number, with a little room left for wrapping or postage. A list of A$45 items for a A$20 swap is not a wishlist. It is a ransom note.

Ask about the extras too. Some groups set a theme (something to eat, something homemade, no candles). Some play a stealing round, where gifts change hands two or three times before the night is over; sturdy, crowd-pleasing items do better there than anything fragile or very personal. If you are not sure what your group is doing, our Secret Santa guide covers the common formats and what each one means for the gift.

Step 2: Pick five to eight items, not one

One item is an order. Eight is a buffet. Your giver wants a choice, so aim for five to eight things you would be equally pleased to open. That way they can pick whatever is easiest to find near them, and you still end up with something you wanted.

Spread the prices. Put a couple of items right at the limit, a couple at about half, and one or two cheap things a giver could pair up. Mix the types as well: something to eat or drink, something you would use every day, something small for the desk or kitchen, and one treat you would never buy for yourself. Five jars of the same hot sauce is a theme, not a list.

If you are the one buying and your person has not made a list yet, our Secret Santa questions will get the answers out of them without a survey.

Step 3: Be specific enough to shop from

"Nice tea" sends your giver into a supermarket aisle with 40 boxes and no clue. "T2 Twenty Tea Bag Gift Pack, A$24" sends them to the right shelf. For each item, write the product name, a size or colour where it matters, and the price you saw. Add a link if you can.

When you spot something online, the List of Wishes Chrome extension saves it to your list in one click, picture and link included, so you are not typing product names from memory at 11 pm. Being specific is not greedy. It is a kindness. Nobody enjoys standing in a shop at 5.55 pm on the last day holding two sizes of the same candle.

One more trick: add a short note to each item saying why it is there. "For the camping trip in January" or "my old one cracked" tells your giver the gift will be used, and it gives them something to write in the card. It takes ten seconds per item and turns a shopping list into a list a person wrote.

Step 4: Mix the useful, the tasty and the small treat

Here are three real examples under A$30 to show the shape of a good list. Prices were checked on each seller's own page on 24 October 2026; please confirm before you add one, since prices move.

ItemPrice checkedWhy it works on a list
Sukin Signature Favourites Trio Gift PackA$14.50Small, useful, scent-light and easy to find
T2 Twenty Tea Bag Gift PackA$24Twenty flavours, so it suits a giver who does not know your taste
OZtrail Double Wall Stainless Steel Mug, largeA$14.99 (sale, usually A$17.99)Sturdy enough to survive a stealing round

The Sukin trio is the kind of thing that fits any list: nobody has ever been upset to receive hand cream. The T2 twenty-bag pack is a safe pick for a tea drinker whose exact brew you do not know. The OZtrail mug below is for the camper or the person whose desk coffee is always cold by the second sip.

From our shop

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Campfire Double Wall Stainless Steel Mug - Large

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More ideas that sit happily under A$30 and get used rather than regifted:

  • A good pair of socks (name the size and say if you like them loud or plain)
  • A reusable coffee cup in the colour you actually want
  • A card game for two to six players
  • A 500- or 1000-piece jigsaw
  • A small plant for the desk, or a pot for the one you already have
  • The paperback you keep meaning to read
  • A good hot sauce, chutney or olive oil
  • A bath soak or a nice bar of soap
  • A notebook you would be sad to spill coffee on, and a pen that deserves it
  • A tea towel that is not a joke

Amazon Australia is handy for the generic items on that list. Try its results for card games and reusable coffee cups, and check the price fits your group's limit before you add one. For more priced picks at each budget, see our guides to Kris Kringle gifts under A$20 and Secret Santa gifts under A$50.

Cheap items earn their place too. Two A$12 things wrapped together feel more generous than one A$24 thing, and they give a giver who is short on time a way to hit the budget without a second shop. Put at least two on the list and let them do the maths.

Step 5: Leave off the things that cause trouble

A few items look fine on a wishlist and turn into a headache for the person buying. Keep these off, or add a note that makes them safe:

  • Anything over the limit. "But it was on sale" does not count if the sale ends on Tuesday.
  • Clothes without a size, shoes without a size, rings without a size. The wrong-size jumper is a gift to no one, apart from the op shop.
  • Perfume or strong-scented skincare, except where you name the exact product.
  • Alcohol, if you do not know your workplace rules. Some offices allow it; some do not.
  • Gift cards for one specific shop, where the group has not agreed to them. If the rules allow cards, say which shop and it is fine.
  • Heavy, fragile or oddly shaped things if your giver lives interstate and will need to post it.

There is a practical reason to be careful here. CHOICE points out that change-of-mind purchases are not covered under the Australian Consumer Law, so a gift that misses the mark can only go back if the shop's own returns policy allows it. Many retailers run longer returns windows over Christmas, but that is a favour, not a right. A clear list means your giver never has to find out.

Once the list is done, share it the way your group agreed. If you used our free Secret Santa generator for the draw, each person's wishlist sits next to their name, so nobody has to ask. Otherwise, send the one link to the organiser or to whoever has your name. On List of Wishes, your giver can claim an item without you seeing it, which keeps the surprise and stops two people buying the same thing in a group gift.

Then stop. Do not add new things after the draw. Do not drop hints at the lunch table. Do not check who claimed what (you cannot, which is rather the point). A list with real prices on it does your giver a quiet favour as well: ASIC's Moneysmart research found 74% of Australian adults say they budget for Christmas, yet only 29% budget every cent and stick to it. Your wishlist takes one guess, and one chance to overspend, off their plate.

Common mistakes

  • Writing one item. If it sells out, your giver is back to guessing.
  • Writing twenty items. The list stops being a help and starts being a catalogue.
  • Listing only the thing you want most, at exactly the limit, with no cheaper options.
  • Using vague words ("something nice for the kitchen") with no brand, size or link.
  • Asking for things that need a receipt to return, then being surprised when they cannot be returned.
  • Sharing the list in a group chat where the whole office can see it, when only one person needed it.

If you want the broader how-to, our guide to making a Christmas wishlist covers the full-size version for family, and our wishlist app comparison looks at the tools Australians use to share one.

Make your own list. Create a free wishlist, add five or six things under the budget, and share the one link with whoever drew your name. The right gift turns up, no duplicates and no awkward returns, and you still get the surprise on the day.

Frequently Asked Questions

4 questions answered

Five to eight is the sweet spot. It gives your giver a real choice and a few price points, without turning into a catalogue. Make sure every item sits under the group's limit.

No. Most people are relieved to get one. A good list saves your giver time, money and a guess they did not want to make. Keep it inside the budget, offer a spread of options, and it reads as helpful, not demanding.

Break the big wish down. If you want a A$90 coffee setup, list the A$25 reusable cup or the beans. List the small useful things you would never buy yourself, and save the big item for a birthday list where the budget is different.

Only if your group has agreed to allow them, and then name the shop. Some groups see a gift card as a cop-out, others love them. Check the rules first and, if cards are fine, write the shop and the amount so the giver is not left guessing.

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About the author
Holly Bennett

Holly writes about gift-giving, wishlists and stress-free group gift exchanges for List of Wishes. She has organised more Secret Santas and Kris Kringles than she cares to admit, and has strong opinions about novelty socks.

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